11 Best Self-Help Books for Men in 2023
I remember my time in school when we had to read some books and pass a test a few days later, gosh I hated reading! Now that I’m a grown-up man, I can understand the value of reading and why it is damn important for anyone who wants to evolve and grow up mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and financially. Reading has opened up my world to a whole new level. In this article, I’m sharing the books any man should read.
Here are my 11 best self-help books for men in 2023 and beyond.
Why every man should read self-help books?
Let’s put it simply, Books equal Knowledge.
Reading self-help books is a sure way to learn from others’ experiences on a specific topic. Knowledge is there to be shared.
Nowadays, you can learn about everything just by reading a book. Words stay, there are written in the matter, and it is energy transmuted to words.
When a man picks up a self-help book, it’s like having a personal coach, or mentor on his side. He can learn and be guided by the wisdom shared in that book. He can feel the energy and the words resonating in his heart. Reading self-help books has changed my life forever, and I switched from hating reading books to, what should i read now, to be a better man.
You don’t necessarily need to read the entire book, sometimes, the book was put on your journey, to make you understand something that was missing from your comprehension.
Every man should read self-help books, it’s part of the growing process and it’s also freakin nice to be able to read anywhere. You don’t need a charger or stress about running out of battery.
What are the 11 best self-help books for men to read?
Everyone is different and some of the books in this list may have a greater impact than others. In any case, this list of self-help books will make you a better man.
No More Mr. Nice Guy
No More Mr. Nice Guy is a masterpiece book by Dr. Robert Glover that has helped millions of men around the world to break free from the shackles of being a “Nice Guy” and take control of their lives. Every man on this planet should read that book, it’s gold as f**ck.
The book explores the concept of “Nice Guy Syndrome”, where men try to please everyone, often at the expense of their own needs and desires. Dr. Robert Glover is sharing a lot of his own experiences and insights about relationships, communication, masculinity, and self-esteem but also hundreds of feedbacks from men he worked with. The book contains a lot of practical advice on how to recover from the “Nice Guy Syndrome”.
No More Mr. Nice Guy is an essential read for any man who wants to live life on his terms, stop pleasing others, and start living authentically. It should be on the top of most lists of must-read self-help books for men, period.
The Way of The Superior Man
This is another mandatory read for any man that wants to upgrade their relationship with women (it’s a book aimed at straight men), not to the next, but to the best level possible.
David Deida is a famous sex and relationship mentor that includes spirituality and energy awareness in his work.
the book explains how men can align their actions with truth, lead with integrity and transform emotions into powerful expressions of love. The Language used here may not be for everyone, David is leaning more toward spiritual knowledge and a poetic way of expressing divine masculinity.
I’ve understood so many of my past relationships reading this book, why my girlfriends were reacting or behaving in a certain way, and how I failed them as well. I was shocked and wished I read that book twenty years ago. It has earned its place among the best self-help books for men.
Letting Go
Most of our problems come because we are attached to the story, the feeling, or the belief we have associated with what we are experiencing.
Letting go is written by David R. Hawkins, and it’s based on the teaching of Lester Levenson.
The book will guide you on how to let go of negative emotions and limiting belief systems. To do that, you first need to recognize, false assumptions, distractions, or limiting aspects of your current situation. David R. Hawkins teaches us how to get in touch with our emotions and feelings, how to accept them, and how to let them go. It’s a powerful process that will help you open your heart and turn your life into a joyful bliss.
I’ve tried many times to follow that technique, sometimes with resistance and refusing to open my heart, but every time I did manage to go through, I felt so relieved and peaceful.
It’s a must-read for men who want to peal the layers of stuck emotions built over time.
You Are a Badass
You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life is a book that can help you to discover your inner strength, break through your fears and doubts, and live an awesome life. It is jam-packed with motivational tales, useful suggestions, and doable actions that can help you grow into the finest version of yourself.
Jen Sincero will guide you in identifying the obstacles standing between you and success and pleasure in your life by showing you how to take charge of your life and alter your mentality to go through these challenges. You will get the tools to design a more successful and joyful life.
It’s a must-read for any man out there who is starting their journey into self-improvement.
Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life
If you’re a man that feels stuck in negativity and can’t find a way out, then this book is for you.
It will help you identify and challenge your self-limiting beliefs, recognize the power of choice in your life, and take action to create positive change. With practical advice, exercises, and stories from real people who have experienced similar struggles, Unfu k Yourself will help you get out of your head and into your life.
This book goes straight to the point and it’s a true classic in the self-help books category for men.
Happiness is Free
The best things in the world come for free, and so is happiness. The title may be a bitch catchy or sounds like a fairytale, but the truth is, no amount of money, nor any possessions, will give you true unconditional fulfillment.
Hale Dwoskin is perpetuating in this book the knowledge of the great Lester Levenson, who lived more than 40 years more than what doctors told him.
” If the roots of all suffering are attachments to the external, the roots of true joy are found only within” James Redfield.
This book maps the way to a profound state of peace by letting go of painful feelings, unwanted thoughts, and negative stories and shows you how to open up to your unlimited potential and happiness.
It’s easier than you think, simple but powerful questions for self-inquiry and effective techniques, such as Holistic Releasing and Triple welcoming, will empower you to gently let go.
Happiness is free is an important self-help book for any man who wants to reach a peaceful state of being.
The Alabaster Girl
Zan Perrion’s philosophy is all about restoring beauty and embarking on your most challenging and memorable adventure,..women. What man doesn’t want a beautiful and feminine presence in his life? We are all craving that.
This book is an ode to women, to their beauty and sensuality, to their wooing and seduction. Zan is known as the greatest seducer in this modern age, a Casanova nouveau. Through narrating a story, Zan is giving you his manifesto to have a life of abundance and be surrounded by women.
This book will restore that curiosity we once had and maybe lost and will help you see women for truly what they are, beautiful divine human beings, just like men are as well.
Reading his book, I felt like a pirate wanting to sail the world and sing the song of women. Corny right? Well, Zan’s method is unique and based on authenticity, no games played, shows up as a man with intentions. Honor the gift they are offering you.
I recommend this book to help men understand women and create more ease and delight in their relationships. If you are interested in that topic, I would recommend you to jump reading my article on the best dating coaches for men.
Think and Grow Rich
“What makes a winner?”
Napoleon Hill is now considered by many as the Granddaddy of all motivational literature.
Think and Grow Rich is a timeless classic that has inspired generations of readers. That book was ahead of his time and Napoleon understood how the law of attraction and the law of success work. The book provides an insightful look into the power of positive thinking, goal setting, and self-discipline. With powerful strategies for success, every man can achieve their dreams.
This book has been cited by many websites, articles, and authors around the world for a reason. It’s the most powerful book to understand the quantum nature of the Universe and how to rewrite your brain to attract your dream life.
I have yet to fully grasp the power of his knowledge but I can say that there is a before and an after when you read this book. A top contender for best self-help books for men.
The 4-Hour Work Week
Are you constantly dreaming of a lifestyle that offers you one of the most precious currencies in life, time, and freedom?
You should read The 4-hour work week by Timothy Ferriss. It’s a life-changing book that will reinvent the way you look at jobs and business.
“Work smarter, not harder.”
The book teaches you how to break the 9-5 grind and live a life of freedom. Through his own experiences, Ferriss shows how to use the power of automation, and technology, and outsourcing work to create more time. It also covers topics such as lifestyle design, goal setting, time management, networking, and creating multiple sources of income.
This book is one of the reasons why so many men started to open their own companies instead of working for someone else. And the reason why many businesses have skyrocketed.
You can read this article to find more reasons to open an online business.
This a mandatory self-help book for every man who wants to have more freedom and time to enjoy life.
Cues: Master the Secret language of Charismatic Communication
Body language says everything about you and how you feel about yourself and with people around you.
I love Vanessa Van Edwards’s insights on human communication and body language. This book is all about sub-communication and learning how to decode social cues so you can understand people’s behaviors and know how to respond and adjust to the situation.
If you feel a bit awkward or don’t know how to relate to a social environment, this book will shed a light on everything. In my opinion, this book should be on every man’s bedside table. This book will serve you in your business meetings, will help you close a better deal, feel comfortable and charismatic in your daily life and social gatherings.
Every man should learn the power of a charismatic aura. I have had a hard time understanding what is happening and how to relate to people in a social gathering. Thanks to the science Vanessa is sharing in her book, I start to understand and feel more at ease now. It’s also a fun process to observe and decode social cues.
This book deserves to be a part of the best self-help books for men.
Atomic Habits
We are creatures of habits, it’s the root of our life. Bad habits lead to bad choices that lead to bad results. If you’re like me and are struggling with having a strong and positive routine, and have addictive daily habits that don’t serve you anymore then this book is for you.
James Clear encourages you to create habits that are easy to stick to, while also providing realistic strategies on how you can accomplish your goals.
The book draws on the latest findings from psychology and neuroscience to explain why small changes can have a huge impact on our lives. He also provides practical advice on how to make these changes stick, including setting clear goals, creating systems of accountability, and tracking progress.
You cannot change everything in a few days, I’m still learning and implementing small changes and positive habits every day, so far I have been improving a lot in terms of productivity and I have a better mood.
Atomic Habits is a powerful self-help book that every man should consider reading. Positive habits and discipline lead to a better life.
Conclusion
I would like to finish this article by telling men who struggle in life or business or with relationships, that a way out is possible. Reading self-help books is a great way to learn, realize and understand what is needed to change. It’s also a cheap solution, it is affordable to buy a book and you can read on your own, at your discretion, and your pace.
I have learned to love books and particularly self-help books. I encourage you to start reading today and discover yourself through books.
